The song for this chapter is (The Symphony Of) Blase’ by Anberlin
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And so they are wed: Edward and Bella are together at last, as we always knew they would end up. This wedding is magnificently organized by Alice, and just imagining it causes me to immediately remember this film:
Except, instead of Steve Martin, Charlie Swan; and instead of humans, a strange assortment of very nervous looking vampires and werewolves. What a wedding to remember!
Then, Jacob Black appears. I don’t understand. I really do not understand at all. I am completely baffled and perplexed. At what point does it become appropriate for an old boyfriend to come to his ex-girlfriend’s wedding, and then take her for his own private dance whilst kissing her hair the moment the groom (currently her husband) disappears? Where does this equate to Jacob being respectful to Edward and his wife — of all days, on the very evening they were wed? This, in my opinion, is but a less severe example of a groom who sleeps with one of the bridesmaids (I’ve once lived in an old Texas hicktown: this does happen 😀 ).
Now, understand that it would have been fine for Jacob to show up at the wedding. If I was Edward, I don’t think I would have any trouble with some of my new wife’s old guy friends making an appearance (on the grounds they are appearing just so that I can make them feel incredibly jealous 😀 ). But Jacob isn’t happy with just being there to wish his friend well. This is perhaps one of the most frustrating things I have read so far. Who does Jacob think he is?
People are going to ask me why I am jumping so harshly upon Jacob Black, especially when I have tried so hard through writing my posts to understand him and to not choose any side. But this is because, as of this chapter, there are no Teams anymore. How can I be Team Jacob, if Team Edward won? It isn’t really a question of who would be better for her, since it is done. To be Switzerland at this point, in my opinion, would be to hang on to the hope that Bella will leave her husband in order to be with her ex-boyfriend. This is Twilight, not some daytime drama.
Still, as usual, it is easy to be against Jacob without looking at things from his point of view. Completely disregarding all courtesy and respect for Edward and Bella, what sort of horrible heartbreak must Jacob be going through right now? This poor guy has tried everything he can to convince Bella she is making a mistake, and even then he can’t give up, when his chance is gone and there is really no more reason to fight for her. I can’t even imagine if I was Jacob Black at that wedding, dancing with the girl I loved more than anything else in the world, and knowing that it is perhaps the last time I’d ever get to, since after that she is someone elses. I know that Jacob probably wishes that time would stop then, because he never wants to leave that last moment.
This type of thing can tear someone apart wondering what might have been if Bella had chosen to remain a human with Jacob. Setting aside all the questions of who is good for Bella, and who shouldn’t have come to the wedding, and all the Teams and Switzerlands: this marriage is going to be hard on everyone. Werewolves and vampires have entirely new treaties to deal with, Jacob must find someone new, and now Edward and Bella must deal with their new life together: and, Bella’s new life as a vampire. Things would have been far simpler had she not fallen in love with Edward. But, things might not have had such a happy ending.
I feel there is a good resolution, however, to Jacob’s feelings for Bella, and that Jacob finally owns up to what he must do:
“Are you happy, Bella?” (Jacob said.)
“Yes.”
“Okay.” I felt his shoulders shrug. “That’s the main thing, I guess […] I’m just here to be your friend. Your best friend, one last time.”
Those final words are the reason I chose the song for this chapter: in a way, I think Jacob feels this could be his last goodbye to Bella, or at least the last time he will really get to hold her. After this day, she is all Edward’s. My respect for Jacob, who might finally be maturing, has grown considerably: and even with my criticisms of his choices, I still feel very bad for him as he is dragged away from Bella, once again with a broken heart.
So I shall throw my imaginary bag of rice in the direction of Bella and Edward, bid them best wishes on their honeymoon, and hope that all will soon be well with the broken-hearted Jacob: from whom I doubt I have heard the last.
Question For The Comments: Do you think that Jacob Black went too far at Bella’s wedding? Also, do you think he deserves to feel the way he does now, for hanging on to a girl who wasn’t his: or was it noble for him to try to change her mind up to the last day?
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Yeah… the whole Jacob thing was weird. It must've taken a lot of balls to go to that wedding, though (seeing how in love with her he was.) It was finally official he had to let go, and I guess he wanted to do it formally. Though, I'm not sure if it was a good or bad thing that he stayed in her life “as a friend.” It's just… I dunno. If they were truly in love, that friendship could never work out. I was always on Team Edward. I just couldn't see Bella's stubborn butt clicking with him. [Though I COULD see MYSELF with Jacob 😉 ]
Btw… why'd your comment system change?
Holy cow, I'm surprised there aren't more comments by now.
So I think Jacob was just being himself, he always was affectionate. He didn't try to do anything more inappropriate than what he usually did. He would fight for her as long as it took, if he thought it would make a difference.
Yeah, I think Jacob did go to far at the wedding, but that's what I expected, I mean he IS Jacob! I understand the whole hanging on to her, but he should have given up by then, I mean, she's already Edward's wife..HELLO. A little too late to change her mind.
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Wait… is this what WordPress meant when they introduced threaded comments? I totally didn't even bother to check.
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No I think that it was wrong of Jacob to crash the wedding so to speak. Although he was invited to the wedding Bella did not want him there, so therefore he should have either not gone or stayed in the background as too not upset Bella. He also shouldn't have basically tried to piss everyone off at the wedding because to me that's kinda what it seemed like to me.
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I think it was good that Jacob came to the wedding – it is what Bella wanted and by extension, what edward wanted.
I understand what you were saying about “who does he think he is” but Jacob knew that Bella wanted him there (via Seth) and I think it was hard for him to be there.
He really should not have lost his cool and potentially spoiled the wedding like that. Although, in his defence it came as a big shock that Bella and Edward planned to have a honeymoon. Just because he had lost to Edward doesn't mean he could stop caring about Bella and her safety.
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I think we're all having mixed reviews as to this new comment system. I, however, am stuck in my ways and not one for change. MySpace still has convinced me to go to 2.0.
That said, Yes, I do think that Jacob went entirely too far. He asked questions he didn't really want the answers to, which all led into a huge amount of grief for everyone involved. It the one time I was honestly concerned for Bella's safety. He seemed too blind with rage to control himself, and when even Seth noticed it, I really wanted someone to pull Bella out of there.
Then, just like that, it's all over, and Emmett is teasing her again. Good for Bella for finally saying she is going to shove something in a locked drawer and leave it there… and then doing it.
As much as I love Jacob as a character, I've never loved him with Bella, and by choosing to involve himself in the personal details of her honeymoon, he allowed himself to be ripped back open, and he deserves what he gets. As Bella said along ago, way back in the first book, you don't really want to know everything that someone else is thinking. The only reason that Jacob has made absolutely no progress in getting over Bella is because he hasn't ever tried.
Kaleb, you know what I would absolutely love? If you would record and post a video of you reading the next chapter. I really think it's the only way to handle it.
So, no one else is going to post about what they think is happening tomorrow? You're not at 30,000 subs yet, so it can't be that. It has nothing to do with your book…. It's not your birthday. I'm perplexed. Maybe you're going to announce that you've got a new girlfriend? o.O
Well, the whole time i kinda had a feeling Jake would show up, I mean if not to ruin the wedding, to at least say goodbye to Bella. It took a lot of wolf balls to go there, I mean is not like noble Edward would've hurt him if he show up but to the fact that Bells had already chose Edward OVER HIM! Does he have dignity?! Jeez!! Anyway i don't think it was noble, but i do think he deserve one last goodbye! XD
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okay took me a minute to figure out how to comment here. I always sort of liked that Jacob came as a final goodbye. Bella was sad her best friend was heartbroken and took off, and she had wished he could be there as her friend. The one thing that bugged me though was it couldn't just be left as that. A best friend coming back to say goodbye and wish her well. He came to the wedding and started a fight over the honeymoon. In which then Edward felt bad for it being a “real honeymoon” as Jacob put it. And I feel it's none of Jacob's business. I personally feel that once Bella's decision was made to be with her first love, then there are certain things that the 2nd love has no right to be concerned about anymore. As harsh as that sounds. I think it just makes it worse and harder to let go. If you come back to say goodbye and agree to finally be the friend, and let her live her life with whom she chose, then you shouldn't start an argument on how she lives her life with her chosen one. That says to me you're not fully letting it go, and at some point even if it's with a broken heart you must move on.
Wolf balls… hahahaha. Nicely put! I think Jacob established his lack of dignity long ago. o.O
He was just being Jacob, who did take things too far even though Bella has always been Edwards.
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I think he went too far, but I suppose I understand why he wants to savor the last precious moments with the girl he'll never have before she completely slips away. I don't really think he was trying to change her mind though I'm sure he was thinking it. He is just trying to come to terms with accepting that he can't have her.
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Oh, just you wait. Things only get more extreme with Jacob from here. I really cannot wait for your reactions to some of the plot details later on in the book. Hopefully, nothing has been spoiled yet. I look forward to seeing your first reactions to the rather twisted things to come. When the time comes and you find out why Breaking Dawn is so controversial, I want to see your point of view. You are always strive to be unbiased, so this should be interesting when I believe you will be tempted to have a vehement reaction.
I had the same reaction as you, Kaleb, when Jacob was too affectionate with Bella. I thought his probing for details of their honeymoon plans was completely intrusive. If Jacob wanted to make Bella happy by attending the ceremony, he could have done it in a less dramatic way.
It wasn't only Jacob's last chance seeing Bella before she is forever Edward's, more importantly he sees it as his last chance being with her when she's still human and not some bloodthirsty newborn vampire who doesn't even recognize him. Her wedding or not, he could not let this chance escape, could he? He's just desperate, clinging on every minute when Bella stays Bella.
Jacob doesn't deserve to feel that way.
i am Team Jacob, and while i was frustrated with his attitude at the wedding there are a couple of things we have to keep in mind. His First True Love does Not love him back = He's only 1617 so he doesn't know how to handle his emotions or make the right judgments/decisions. On top of that, he has trouble coping with keeping his thoughts to himself (with the pack) so there is no privacy! imagine being a teenager experiencing things for the first time and some of those things include sharing your deepest feelings and secrets with a whole pack of friends and enemies (leah lol)…. must be extremely tough.. AND who does he turn to for advice? Advice about “How does he tell the girl he loves not to marry the man of her dreams; who wants to taste her, can easily break her, and is his worst enemy because he is capable of killing dozens of humans at once for dinner? or How does he help his thoughts and feelings so the people in his pack don't see his pain?” If i were him i wouldn't know what to do anymore either. so i would just go with my instincts i suppose… because even if i gave it a lot of thought, i still wouldn't know what is the right thing to do…. I believe this is part of the learning process for him. And i think Bella understands him like that.
anyway that is why i am team Jacob 🙂 and NO kaleb Team Jacob doesn't mean you want Bella for Jacob anymore…. but that you prefer Jacob for yourself =] lol
Well, in my personal opinion, you seem to have overlooked a crucial point about why Jacob overreacts at the wedding… He is EXTREMELY concerned that Bella will be either hurt or killed because of her wish to have a “human” honeymoon. Yes, Jacob can be very pushy when it comes to his affections for Bella. But he gets the most concerned (and overprotective) when it comes to Bella's safety… From his perspective, Bella's relationship with Edward is dangerous and often destructive. He has a hard time understanding that Edward is such a good guy. Whereas we all understand that, because we hear the story from Bella's perspective.
I think Jacob was prepared to wave the white flag, so to speak, until he heard that Bella might get hurt. Then, as usual, he lost control over his emotions. (Much like how he lost control when he found out Bella's intention to become a vampire.)
So, yes, Jacob might have gone too far, especially since the situation easily could have turned into a confrontation between the vampires and the werewolves, which would spoil the wedding (to say the least)… But his intentions aren't quite as selfish as they might seem at first glance.
That said, I completely agree with what you said about how, as of Chapter Three, there aren't really “teams” anymore. At least, not as far as who ends up with Bella is concerned. In that way, even though I love Jacob to pieces, I'm always Team Edward, since that was Bella's choice. 🙂
Also, I have no idea what the surprise is… I guess you might be giving something away? Anyway, I'm looking forward to finding out! 🙂
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Yes i do think he went to far at the wedding. I can appreciate he was there just to make Bella happy and see her and i know he tried hard to be good but he had no right to fly of the handle like that. he had no right to well try and kill the groom when he heard something he did not like. But (being someone who is actually quite fond of Jacob ) i am glad he turned up as it just was like the icing on the cake for Bella and well it is her day and i wanted her to have the happiest day that well could be provided, also, i think Jacob deserved one last chance to see her becuase well to him she will be 'worse than dead' next time he would see her (btw i am telling you this as my opinion when i was reading this chapter so i'm ignoring my knoledge of what i know happens).
And no it was not noble it was selfish becuase he knows this is what she wants and to stop her changing well he jsut wants her for himself…it isn't for the greater good or anything…Edward is the only noble one here as even though it will obviously be better for him if Bella changes he still would rather she stay human so she would enjoy her life better
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No, Jacob didn't go too far because, personally, I would have stopped reading the book if Jacob didn't come back. Yes, sure, it only took me like an hour to get to that point, or less, but still. It was sad enough when he left, but if he hadn't come back, the book would have been a fail, which it wasn't.
Personally, I stand on a Team Jacob side because, yes, Edward won, but so? Just because your sports team lost the championship, it doesn't mean you have to drop all support for them and give in. It just makes you cheer harder for your team. Same here. Who's to say that Bella wasn't going to cheat with Jacob on her wedding night? Hmm? And who's to say that something else may not happen that would cause the pair of them to get together again?
I am personally a Jacob fan because I cannot stand Edward Cullen. Bella was, well, idiotic, may I say, to marry him, but that was her choice, and I have mine. I like Jacob, because I – take note of that, I – would choose him.
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I don't think Jacob went too far at Bella's wedding. If he did, Bella would have told him, or at least, Edward would have done something (:. I think that dance is kinda a goodbye present she gave him. But it's also hard for Bella. Even if it's her choice to be with Edward and like Edward forever, she's also giving up her family, her friends, and in the case of Jacob, her best friend.
But Jacob doesn't deserve to feel as he's feeling. I don't believe he actually wants to feel like that. He has no choice. It's stronger than him (if you see what I mean ^^), he can't help it.
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I just wish he would leave. I used to like Jacob. In New Moon he was a great guy. But what frusterated me was how much Bella liked him. Then When Jacob became a werwolf, his maturity levels seemed to drop from their already low point..
You know this is a really pointless subject. Kaleb stop asking us these questions! My friends are die hard switzerland fans and I promised that I would change my ways from Jacob hater to you know like friend. You just keep making this harder!!!! Sorry, i overreacted still, we all no how this book ends! we shouldn't keep arguing about it on your website. Kay so you don't know but the rest of us who post do. kay i will just shut up now because i am making no sense at all. 😀
Yeah, I do think that Jacob was WAAAAAAAAAAAAYY out of line at Bella's wedding. But, at the same time, it's hard for anyone to give up on the feeling of a first love, and Bella and Jacob have been through more than most people. As a strong member of Team Edward, I want to say that Jacob deserves to feel this way, but by this point in the story, his happiness is important to me too. Really, I do think that what he does/is doing is noble. He wants the very best for Bella, he wants to be able to be around her, he doesn't want to hurt her, and he's failing epicly in all of these areas in his opinion. Bella has closed the Jacob drawer, but these things still hurt her. She got what she wanted, for her friends and family to see that she made what SHE thought was the best choice, to marry Edward.
Btw, “How can I be Team Jacob, if Team Edward won?” is the greatest thing that I've ever read. I'm just sayin'. lol.
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I think it was good of Jacob to come to the wedding. He had been invited afterall and Bella had made it clear to the readers that she wanted Jacob to be there but didn't want him to feel obligated. While their dacing Jacob says something along the lines of him getting only one dance and Bella said he could have as many dances as he wanted, so thrilled that her best man had come. Both of them needed some sort of closure.
Besides, if Jacob's intentions were anything less than noble do you think Edward would have let him dance with Bella? I've never been Team Jacob simply because I knew he didn't stand a chance and Jacob sems to now realize that what's done is done. Admitedly, he shouldn't have flipped so much about the honeymon but werewolves are kind of known for thier insane tempers, not that that excuses his actions or anything.
I don't think Jacob was being selfish. He was just trying to make Bella happy and you can't really argue that prior to the whole honeymoon fiasco, he was failing.
I don't think that Jacob went to far by coming to the wedding. Without him there, it just felt that someone was missing and Bella definitely felt that way. She wanted him there as her friend and since its hard for him to be that, I think he did a pretty good job. He didn't try to kidnap her or plead her not to go with Edward. He wants her to be happy even if hes suffering.
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I thought Jacob coming to see Bella at the wedding was nice. It could not have been easy for him. However, his making a huge fuss about honeymoon was so totally uncalled for, extremely rude and completely inappropriate. There is no excuse for it. Besides, Jacob really knows (though he would not admit it even to himself) how much Edward cares for Bella and would never consumate if he found it to be impossible. I felt that Jacob was still unconciously hoping and trying to get Bella back.
Jeez, Kaleb! Way to be uber harsh on my favorite character in the series! (*cuddles Jacob*)
I don't get why everyone's always bashing the poor guy! Yeah, people can sympathize with him (like you do) but it seems like the vast majority of people are always so critical and hateful towards the poor guy! Sure, some of the things Jacob does are a bit immature and rash at times, but what more can you expect from a guy who's madly in love with the girl he can never have?
Anyway, getting back to the question — I think that a large part of the reason Jacob showed up at the wedding was for Bella. She wanted him there more than anything… don't you remember her reaction when she first saw him? Being there, seeing Bella so happy with Edward, must have been torture for poor Jake… he probably wouldn't have shown up if it weren't for the fact that Bella was so worried about him and wanted him there so badly.
He was being selfLESS, not selfISH when he made the decision to come to the wedding. But I think he underestimated just HOW hard it would be, especially when everything finally sunk-in. (hence his outburst of anger and almost-transformation).
A lot of people say that they have a better understanding and a greater respect for Jacob after they finish Breaking Dawn… and I hope you're one of them! I really don't like BD very much, but I'm looking forward to seeing your reactions to it and finding out if your attitude toward Jacob changes at all 🙂
I'm sorry for that little rant, but I'm very protective of my Jakey <3 Hahaha I sound like a psycho.
Happy reading, Kaleb!
I know you’ve tried to understand Jacob and still have trouble dealing with the things he does, but I think comes from how you view Bella and Edward’s relationship. Repeatedly, you call Bella his and say you don’t know how Edward can tolerate it. Now, I do’nt mean for this to sound rude, but Bella is her own person. She chose Edward of her own volition. She picked him. She married him. And whereas Edward does not have to trust Jacob, he does have to trust his wife. He’s the only who thanked Jacob for being there, because it’s making his wife happy. He’s the one who left them alone, which just shows how much he has grown and matured – he does trust them.
But Jacob says he’s just there to be her best friend one last time. Because after this, like you said, everything’s different. He has to say goodbye to Bella. And not because Bella is Edward’s now, but because Bella is no longer Bella to him. He has to give up all hope that Bella will change her mind and be with him. Jacob wants to live in an alternate reality, if only for a few moments, and believe it’s wedding night with Bella. That there weren’t vampires or werewolves…there’s just him and the woman he loves.
Because as far as he knows, the next time he sees Bella, she’s going to be a vampire – aka his enemy. To him, he’s saying goodbye to her while she’s on her deathbed. She won’t be the same Bella he knows and loves after this. It isn’t that he lost the fight against Edward, because after all, this wasn’t a fight against him…in Jacob’s eyes, this was a life and death situation. He could give Bella life and Edward would be giving her death. Which Edward agreed with, which is why he refused to turn Bella for so long.
The tables turn and things get out of control when Jacob’s alternate reality is broken. He wants to stay there, but he’s too curious…he wants to reassurance that she’s going to be okay. But Bella can give him that because they have two different definitions of being okay. He wants to trust that Edward will take care of her, vampire or not. It’s almost as though Jake is going through the stages of grief throughout the entire process. He denied it, he became angry, he was even bargaining, saying he’d kill her himself if that’s what Bella wanted.
Undoubtedly, this is hardest of Jacob because he views that matter completely different and no one’s even listening to him. His whole world is changing. Once Bella is turned, the treaty is broken and it’s an all out war…against the woman he used to love. I couldn’t even imagine being in that position.
Well, i thought it was nice of Jacob to give Bella a nice wedding present by showing up, as well as behaving somewhat well. The only thing I thought he went to far with was the honeymoon. It was really none of his business, and he should of held in his feeling infront of Bella. it wasnt his place to overreact like that.
But it's just what he does, think of how you would feel if the girl you absolutely loved was making such a horrid mistake (in his opinion) Now, after this, there is absolutely no hope to change her mind. The only reason he feels that way because he won't let her go. He has to realize that this is what she wants more than anything. If he can accept this finally, knowing that she will be with edward, he could begin to start to heal the wounds their strained relationship has created.
Great post!! For me Jacob is not just lossing Bella becuase she is marring Edward. Jacob knows that Bella wants to be changed into a Vampire and he will loose his human Bella that he loves so much.
For the first time I would have to be on Jacob's side here and say no he didn't over react.
Her and Jacob where talking, Yes Jacob said way too much as usual. But at the same time Bella shouldn't have said what she said about her honeymoon, when she knows that stuff upsets Jacob, and an upset Jacob leads to a warewolf.
Like you, everyone should put themselves in the place of Jacob. Have the person you loved more than anything love someone else, to marry them. It would tear anyone up inside and possibly out. If you had one more chance to hold them, to feel them, even if it is at their wedding, no matter where it is, wouldn't you take it? Jacob is still her best friend and he deserved to be there. Sometimes, you have to see things for yourself and in a way he owed it to them – to whatever him and Bella could have been. It was their goodbye to that alternate future and the love they had for one another.
As far as Edward goes, the regret he feels for leaving her, the gratitude to Jacob who'd taken care of her while he was gone, for loving her enough, Edward owed it to Jacob to give them a chance to mend. After all, he won, he had nothing to lose.
Poor Jacob…
I think, in the end, it was always going to be Edward and Bella, they just fit together perfectly. Although, I have to say, if I had to personally choose between Edward and Jacob I'd probably chose Jacob. I think that should be the definitions of the teams now. Of course we don't want our favourite guy to end up with Bella, we want him for ourselves.
Anyway, about the special thing tomorrow isn't it the cover art of Bran Hambric?? It did say the 16th on the video, right?
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Yes,
I did Think Jacob went to far. I mean kissing her hair, everything.
I don't give Jacob all the blame, Bella knew how sensitive he was when she was talking about her and Edward, and she just HAD to say something about the honeymoon. LOL .All and all, I thought it was a great chapter, the wedding was perfect.
And no, I don't believe we've seen the last of Jacob, either XD
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I think Jake came as a gift. He did ask some questions he should not have, and when he got the answer, reality hit him in the face! He flipped out because he didn't want to think about Bella really being with Edward. By now, he knew that Edward would do everything in his power to keep Bella safe. His outburst was born purely of jealousy!! She was Edward's – it was final, and the honeymoon was just the final nail in the coffin, so to speak.
Read on, Kaleb!!!
While, yes I do think Jacob went too far at the wedding, it is Jacob and he seems to do that a lot. People also have to remember that he is only a teenager and will not act a mature as he probably should. While he had no business bringing up her honeymoon at all, he did, and I do understand why he got so upset, Edward is worried about the exact same thing. Can't wait for you to read more.
And I have no idea what the special thing will be tomorrow, guess I'll just have to wait and see.
Oh, and also, I do think that Jacob went a little too far, considering the fact that he kissed her hair when she is still in a wedding dress, at her reception! When Bella told him to “butt out” of personal business when discussing the honeymoon/Bella's transformation, Jacob over-reacted. I feel that because she isn't his, and she IS Edward's he had no right to react that way. I know it is only because he loves her and does not want her to become a vampire but I still think that it's Bella's life and Jacob has no power over it anymore. I also think that Bella was a little to passive aggressive because she let it happen, with the whole kissing the hair thing.
And Edward, I am Team Edward by the way, I feel that this moment is almost like the ending of Eclipse in a way. Because, although Bella is his now and they are together and in love, Bella still wants Jacob around, and Bella is still hurting Jacob, obviously but she is also hurting Edward in a way, because she doesn't want to let Jacob go. Edward, to me, is giving a huge sacrifice for Bella because he just absolutely loves her, to the very core of his being he wants nothing but for Bella to be happy.
And in reply to your question, I believe that Jacob is noble just showing his face at this wedding, but at the same time I think that it is his fault for having his heart get broken again, if he had never came then this abysmal goodbye would never have torn his heart out again, like Bella in New Moon. Everytime these two say goodbye, its is another tear inside him, leaving him empty.
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I think that Jacob didn't go too far at the wedding, he was just saying his goodbyes in his own Jacob-y way. However, I do think he deserves to feel how he does. Rather than saving Bella, he was more just tearing her apart. It would've been best for both of them if he could've just done one clean break. Though he did try at the end of New Moon/beginning of Eclipse, I feel he should've tried harder to just completely break off from Bella. It wasn't a noble or right thing to do to try to get her 'till the end– and technically, Bella could still get divorced. For all he knows, he still has a chance, after trying to get her through Edward and Bella dating, Edward and Bella being engaged, and now, he could still go after her in the Edward and Bella being married stage.
It's all changed, (the posting thing) Anyway….
Yeah, I think he did take it a bit to far, why can't he just except that Bella loves Edward? But I do think he might feel like that, coz after all that he's done to try and tear them apart that it isn't wise for him to try and stay Bella's friend like that
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